Saturday, 4 February 2017

Adulting










Sheer top - Missguided // Bra top - Missguided // Pants - Asos // Coat- Zara // Shoes - Bershka

Sheer tops in winter, a statement or a sign that I’m losing it? Maybe a little bit of both. In my defence I wasn’t cold! I also feel like we should focus on the fact that I’m wearing heels. Full-on inches-off-the-ground, could-break-my-neck-but-not-really, adulting heels. I’m more of a trainers kind of girl but I feel like the heels really compliment the sporty vibe these pants are giving off. 

I never really buy or wear heels but I thought, ‘why not’. They were inexpensive as I bought them during the boxing day sales. I’m trying to stray from my comfort zone with these heels, as well as in many aspects of my life. Comfort zones are so cozy but they’re stationary. When you don’t try new things, you get to be safe, you don’t push yourself but you also don’t see what else you’re capable of. And when we try and chase a dream or rise to new levels in life, we’re always going to have to do things we’re not comfortable with until we reach where we want to be and/or to maintain our dream or position when we finally get there. Adulting also requires that we do things we’re not comfortable with in order for us to grow. Adulting isn’t fun but sometimes it has to be done. 

7 comments :

  1. Love the look! Amazing post! ❤

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  2. I think the heels are a nice addition, they really do complement this outfit. x

    / ORR - Life & Style Journal

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  3. how can one tell when its just peer pressure and when your friends really want you to be an Adult?

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    1. I personally don't surround myself with people that try and pressure me into things or make me feel like I have to be a certain way. But to answer your question, you need to rely on your intuition. You should only be focusing on your voice and your needs rather than listening to the voices of others. If it's what you know will make you happy in the long run, then it's probably what you really want.

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    2. I see...so its possible for your friends to help you in Adulting but a lot of help comes from yourself...thanks babygirl...I really like coming here

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