Sunday, 4 December 2016

Just Sayin/ I Tried







Jumper - H&M (similar) // Coat - Zara (similar) // Culottes - Topshop // Shoes - New Look // Choker - Topshop // Leather Cuff - Ebay

I know it's been a while but here's a new post! It's been a bit difficult trying to co-ordinate with people to carry out shoots especially when the days I'm free to take photos are also the days when it's been raining. Sometimes circumstances beyond our control get in the way of plans but you have to keep going if you want to reach your goals. Speaking about difficulty, I wanted to talk about dealing with difficult people. It's always hard when you have to deal with someone that's uncompromising, whether it's at work or at home or in public, especially when you need their help or need something from them. When I encounter people like these, I always have that saying at the back of my mind, "you catch more flies with honey than with vinegar". However, you can be the sweetest person in the world and the person you have to deal with can still be unaccommodating. It's frustrating but getting angry and  stooping down to the level of that person is not the answer. Even though it might feel good in that second, the chances are you'll end up regretting it. You can't compromise your character over difficult people, there will always be difficult people. Staying calm and gracious most times, will get you further than you think. 
Hope everyone has a great week.

P.S: A little announcement! I'm going to be doing a lot more youtube videos. I feel like it's easier to get out content that way and it'll let you guys get to know me a bit better. If there's anything you want to see from me, comment below or let me know on any of my social media platforms (links are in the bar to the right of my page).

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  1. Talk about the right words at the right time.I just realised how unnecessary it is to get angry with someone you're pretty sure is not going to change. Been angry with this friend of mine for a while now and that has made me really uncomfortable because she is really a difficult person to deal with but because I realised there is no point bringing myself to her level just to prove a point, I decided to just stay calm and that is really paying off...Thanks Maeve...this is one place I can just come and get inspired....love the outfit BTW

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    1. Ahh thanks girl! Glad I could inspire you, means a lot! Try approaching your friend about the way she's behaving. Sometimes people don't realise they're being difficult. If that doesn't work, I suggest just distancing yourself for your own benefit and peace of mind. xx

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